Pew!

I *hate* it when people I’m close to ask for my advice when they don’t want it. They get me involved in their lives, where I don’t want to be, by the way, and ask me for my advice – and they always want the truth. Why do they do that? Don’t they know who I am by now, I mean, have we met?

If you ask me what I think, I’m going to tell you – be forewarned of this! Asking me for my opinion will not warrent you much wanted attention, it will not warrent you lies to make you feel better and I will not tell you to do what you already wanted to do in the first place if I don’t agree with it. So don’t freaking ask me, how hard is that?

What’s worse is all of the sudden I am responsible for a major decision in someone else’s life – and I only offered an opinion. What’s worse is that this person is passive agressive, and because I told them something they don’t want to hear, they took it out on me by deciding that my opinion wounded them so much that they’ve decided to do the exact opposite of what I thought they should do – as if it in any way affects me. What gets me is that I only want the best for them, and they know this, so this spiteful attitude is a painful reminder to me to keep my mouth shut no matter how much anyone wants me to weigh in. No more playing head shrinker for me, not until people start paying me by the hour, lol.

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